I have been a life-long commitment-phobic. I don?t think this is like alcoholism ? once a commitment-phobic, always a commitment-phobic. I didn?t know this until I?d actually resolved this myself. I didn?t know I?d resolved myself until it hit me the other night,? this is the first time in my life I have ever felt settled in a relationship.
I work with a lot of women who are either like me or they date men like me and commonly it?s both.? I may be someone?s girlfriend or even someone?s wife but deep down, I know (and they know) that the situation is for now. It?s happening in the moment and at no time have I ever been able to see myself with someone, 5 years down the road, say. We may be solidly partnered, seen as partnered, etc. but deep down, I don?t believe it. Deep down, I have never committed. Considering this, you might imagine my shock to realize I am actually settled now.
As for the astrology, I have Uranus in the 7th house (classic) and a very strong Jupiter signature in my chart. I don?t know what to say besides the impulse to jump the fence is? well, it?s inborn.
Are you a commitment-phobic? If so, do you think it can be resolved?? Are you even interested in resolving it?
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